Unbought, Unbossed, Unbilled
Stop Giving Your Expertise Away Without Apologizing for It (Even If You’ve Said Yes to Free for Twenty Years)
Accomplished Black women give their expertise away every week: the panel, the “quick call,” the framework a client keeps using after the contract ends. They call it an honor. The bill shows up anyway. Cynthia Barnes opens with Shirley Chisholm’s “Unbought and Unbossed” and makes the case for the third word. With her own receipts, including the conference she paid her own way to speak at for free before coming home to an overdue light bill, she shows the room what free has cost and why “know your value” advice never produced a number.
YOUR ATTENDEES WILL BE ABLE TO
- List every place they gave their expertise away in the last twelve months, and who benefited from each.
- Recognize the polite forms an unpaid ask takes: the panel, the quick call, the pick-your-brain, the exposure offer, and the framework that outlives the contract.
- Answer the next request for free work in one sentence, without apologizing.
- Name the next decision where the free habit will cost them, who will be on the other side of it, and the date it lands.